When it comes to competing with others, a little healthy competition can be a good thing. It’s often the spark that lights one’s fiery motivation or makes giving up seem like a non- option. All good things, right? Unfortunately I don’t think our society today embraces just healthy competition alone. In fact, I believe that competition… Read More Are You Tired of Competing?
This has got to be the most common issue on the minds of quarter lifers. Some of my first memories are of people in my life asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I even graduated from daycare (yes, my daycare had a graduation) when I was at the ripe age… Read More Figuring Out What To Do With Your Life
In my own experience and the experience of those around me, I have noticed one glaringly obvious commonality. When it comes to split second decisions or giving immediate answers, young people struggle. This ability to think on our toes and make an executive decision without the input of anyone else or time to weigh the… Read More Mystery Solved: Decision Making in 2016
Are some of your friendships that you thought would last forever gently fading into nonexistence? Now that you don’t have 3rd and 4th period together to pass notes in or that tiny dorm room to share, perhaps you’re realizing that one or both of you don’t value the friendship as much as you had hoped. As… Read More Understanding Your Fading Friendship
We are all familiar with the kind of relationship that takes over the lives of the two people involved. They go from being individuals to being two halves of a whole. Not only is this way of being unhealthy, but it also sets you up for a hell of a broken heart and a whack of… Read More Your Relationship Is Not Your Identity
So as you’ve probably noticed, being in your 20’s and 30’s is requiring a lot of courage. Now, all of a sudden, there are less people holding you accountable. Less structure in your life and more of it is completely UP TO YOU. You get to decide who you want to be, how you want… Read More How 20-30 Somethings Can Become Courageous
Maybe you have a big decision looming over your head. Maybe you feel in your gut like something isn’t right but if you admit that or go ahead and make this change, it feels like it will impact others, like it will cause upset, confusion, or judgement. This is often what difficult decisions feel like… Read More Digging Deep for Courage